Indifference : Why it cripples people.

At some point in time in life we all need to stop, and ask ourselves

"Am o okay?"
"Am I doing alright?".

In essence, there's a need to constantly evaluate ourselves.

A kind of 'check'.

The reason, is for us to correct any anomalies in our lives in a bid to uproot anything unnecessary before it gets too deep.

One of such things is an indifferent attitude to life.

Having an indifferent attitude is having an 'I don't care' lifestyle or an 'I don't give a damn' approach to life.

The truth is most people who have this attitude live a false reality.

They tend not to see the big picture.

A lot of kids just go to school for school's sake and a lot of university students just want to get a degree for the sake of getting one.

You're in school and your parents are paying the fees, in a bid to give you a solid footing in life, and then you don't care about school work and you're not willing to do anything about it.

Listen. You're just being silly and honestly, you won't get nothing out of it, unless you straighten yourself up.

Also, a lot of workers don't bloody care about the work they do, and many unemployed able people aren't willing to do anything about it.
Here we simply blame the government.

The question is 'have you done anything to sort yourself out?'

Not just some silly attempt but with genuine effort.

Some families have a lot of problems and become upside down not directly because of these problems, but because of their responses to such problems.

People are outright not willing to make things work, and then they miss out on good things and have themselves to blame.

Many family men have issues with cash flow.

But then, if they're more than willing to make ends meet and they put in a ton of effort, they're gonna get their big break, because such people never miss opportunities.

Its not new, that a lot of women have become widows, and a few of them have powered on, working their fingers off to make sure their kids end up well.

I know of a lady who trained three lawyers from a cleaning job. She suffered, but then to her (and any other sane person) it was worthwhile.

Ambitious people are always out there, working tirelessly.

When they make genuine efforts and then probably hit a road block, others see them as being foolish.

Those 'others' have serious issues. They probably haven't stopped to consider the bleakness of their futures.

People should atop living with an indifferent attitude to life.

If you're indifferent in your approach to thongs and you don't want to make any genuine effort to set things straight, and you're making 'I don't care' choices,

Dear, you're living a dream in a false reality.

You need to wake up!

Author
Koyejo Sowunmi, 200l Pharmacy OOU